Since this is the Thanksgiving week in which I read a lot beyond investment but very enlightening, I thought to share something which I think may enrich you instantly. Of course, I'm not talking about financial enrichment but in the long run, a better life attitude can indeed enrich us substantially in our finance as well. But we can instantly enrich our life if we can look at the world around us in a more positive way instead of being immersed in negative energy! So here are two pieces.
By Alex Green (excerpt):
Constantly comparing what you have with what someone else has creates an impoverished state of mind. It makes you feel poorer, even when you aren't.How can you become richer - instantly? By adopting the opposite mindset.
Dwell on your assets rather than your liabilities, your blessings rather than your grievances, your opportunities rather than your problems.
Even setbacks can be viewed in a positive light if you see them through the lens of gratitude - and ask yourself a few questions:
What can I be thankful about in this situation?
Could it have been worse?
Is there an important lesson to be learned here?
How can I grow from this?
My good friend and Liberty Through Wealth colleague Joel Wade - author, practicing psychologist and life coach - recommends keeping a gratitude journal, one where you take a few minutes each night before retiring to write down the good things - both large and small - that made you thankful that day.
What are the benefits?
Studies show that grateful people have an easier time falling asleep and snooze longer. They enjoy a host of health benefits, including greater resilience and longevity. Gratitude has even been shown to boost your happiness set point - your basic genetically determined level of happiness - by up to 25%.
In short, in order to feel - and be - wealthier, you need only recognize how rich your life already is.
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I happen to read something today in the same context and very enlightening. So share with you here as well. Full writing can be find here.
人生在世,难免遇到不如意的事情,若事事都过于计较,只会让人身心俱疲。
计较的越多,内心就越是痛苦,烦恼缠身,自己中毒就越深,身边再多的福气也会跑掉。
古语云:世上无难事,庸人自扰之。
遇到烦恼之事,常常是因为自己和自己过不去,把时间浪费在没有意义的事情上。
打开自己的胸襟,不去计较,你的命会越来越好。
人生在世,难免遇到不如意的事情,若事事都过于计较,只会让人身心俱疲。
计较的越多,内心就越是痛苦,烦恼缠身,自己中毒就越深,身边再多的福气也会跑掉。
古语云:世上无难事,庸人自扰之。
遇到烦恼之事,常常是因为自己和自己过不去,把时间浪费在没有意义的事情上。
打开自己的胸襟,不去计较,你的命会越来越好。
01
越计较,命越不好。
精明不如厚道,太会算计,费尽心思去占别人便宜的人,往往会失去更多东西。
老子说过,大智若愚,大巧若拙。
真正聪明的人往往都懂得厚道,不计较一时的得失,因为他们懂得,越付出越拥有,越是与人方便,自己的福报会越来越多。
越是计较,人生的路也就越来越窄。
爱出者爱返,福往者福来。
没有人愿意和计较的人做朋友,以一颗宽容之心待人,别人也会以同样的心待你。
人有千算,天则一算。
越是计较,你的福气就会越少,福气越少,你的命就越不好。
人生在世,要懂得吃亏是福。多存善心,与人为善,福报会不请自来。
02
心胸的宽窄,决定命运的格局。
俗话说:常与同好争高下,不与傻瓜论长短。
真正有格局的人,不会与和自己不在同一层次的人计较,因为他们有更重要的事情去做,没必要把时间浪费在这些没用的事情上。
不计较,修一颗宽容之心,不仅是一种修养,更是一种智慧。
古人云:能容小人,方成君子。
大智者必谦和,大善者必宽容,唯有小智者才咄咄逼人,小善者才斤斤计较。
真正有格局的人,必定有包容万物、宽待众生的胸怀。
而胸襟的宽窄,决定了你命运的格局,你能包容多少,就能拥有多少。
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不计较,是一个人最大的福气。
《菜根谭》里讲:“世亦不尘,海亦不苦。”
人生在世,别活得太累,少去计较不好的方面,福气会越来越多。
一个人过得好不好,就看他是否能看开事情。
凡事懂得放下,不强求,不计较,知足常乐,是一个人最大的福气。
人生本过客,何必千千结。
过于斤斤计较,只能让自己陷于无休止的内耗,最终心力交瘁。
人心是相互的,你对别人好,别人会加倍奉还。你若对别人计较,麻烦也会回到自己身上。
遇到事情之后,越计较,就越是痛苦,越会让自己不顺。
人生没有过不去的坎,看淡一切,计较与不计较,日子不都是一样的过吗?何必让自己痛苦呢?
别抱怨上天对你的不公,自己的命运掌握在自己手中。
人生,计较的越多,痛苦就越多,越是计较,越是贫穷.
学会不计较,就是远离了灾祸,远离了厄运.
人,越计较,命越不好。
命运都是由自己造就的,不与他人计较,你的福气会越来越多。